Baby's Pets

From LoveToKnow Baby

Until your baby arrives, your pet may receive a lot of your love and attention. Once baby is here, however, pets can quickly take a backseat to an adored newborn. A good relationship between your pet and your baby doesn't just happen overnight. In fact, you need to begin helping your pet get acquainted with your baby even before she is born.

Before Baby Arrives

Pets have a remarkable sixth sense. Although they may not understand what is actually happening, they may sense that something different is occurring in their home. You can begin preparing your pet for baby's arrival with a few simple techniques.

If your pet hasn't been spayed or neutered, now is the time to do so. Spaying or neutering an animal can lower any aggressive tendencies they might have.
Be sure your pet is up-to-date on all of its shots. You should also be sure that it has been wormed.
If you feel that your pet will be a problem once the baby is born, you might want to invest in some good obedience classes to help manage its behavior.
Once you have decorated and stocked the baby's room, allow your pet to spend a little time in the nursery. It may sniff and explore all of the new objects, but eventually your dog or cat will become accustomed to the new smells.
If you are worried about your animal's reaction to a baby crying, you could play tape recordings of baby's cries several weeks in advance of your baby's birth.
Once baby has been born, plan on sending home a receiving blanket that has his or her smell. Allow your pet to sleep with the blanket so the smell of the new baby will be more familiar.

Once Baby Comes Home

When your baby comes home, you'll be excited, exhausted, and probably overwhelmed. You won't have a lot of energy to devote to your pet at this time, but it is important to still give him attention. You want to promote a positive relationship between the animal and your child. Animals can get jealous, which can also lead to unwanted behavior.

As soon as you arrive home, plan on spending a few minutes petting your pet and giving him some attention.
Continue to give your pet a few minutes of your time every day.
You can allow your pet to sniff your infant, but if you notice any hostile behavior, you'll need to remove the animal immediately and address the problem as soon as possible.
Do not let your pet sleep in the baby's room.
Do not let your pet play with baby's toys. Instead, be sure he has plenty of his own toys to play with.
Promote positive behavior by praising and rewarding your pet.

As Baby Grows

Once your baby becomes mobile, don't be surprised if she begins to gravitate towards your pet. Babies are naturally curious, but they don't have good judgment. She may want to pull your pet's tender ears and tail, or poke him in the eyes. It is your responsibility to teach your child to treat your pet with kindness and respect. Just as you expect your animal to show good behavior, you also need to expect the same of your child. With time and patience, your baby and your pet can become the best of pals!