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Adoption can be both a joyous and a confusing journey. It can be a stressful time, but also a time of celebration for the child and her adoptive family. How do you begin the adoption process, and what do you need to know? Read on for information regarding the various types of adoption, problems facing adoptive parents, and tips for adopting.

You may decide to start the process with an adoption agency but you need to ensure they are legitimate? First, you should always check with the Better Business Bureau, but don't stop there. Check with your state agency that monitors and gives licenses to adoption facilities. You can also ask for references, but keep in mind that the agency will probably only give you the names of people they know will sing their praises. Visit several agencies, and have a list of questions in mind.

  • Are they licensed?
  • How long have they been in business?
  • Do they mostly handle open or private adoptions?
  • Do they have any post-adoption counseling?
  • What is their success rate?
  • What are their adoption fees?
  • What monies do they want up front?
  • Do they have a reputable attorney working for them?

Types of Adoptions

There are several different types of adoptions, such as open adoption, private adoption and international or domestic adoption. To figure out which one is right for you, read our informative articles, and keep in mind the following points:

  • Open Adoption: In many cases, the birth mother chooses you by looking through a prepared portfolio that features pictures and information about your life. The birth mother may want to maintain some form of contact with you and/or the child throughout his or her childhood.
  • Private Adoption: In many cases these records are sealed. Neither the birth parents or the adoptive parents know each others' identity.
  • International Adoption: Although this can be a great option, keep in mind that you may have to stay several weeks in a foreign country, which is an additional expense on top of your regular adoption fees.

Post-Adoption Issues

Once you've finalized your baby's adoption it should be smooth sailing, right? Not always! Some women experience post-adoption depression, and this is quite understandable. Imagine planning for one of the biggest events of your life. It's all-consuming! Once you've reached your goal, and your baby is in your arms, you may feel like a child the day after Christmas. The adrenaline rush is gone, and reality sets in. Who is this tiny creature that has suddenly appeared in your life? How can you look after someone you don't even know? It may or may not be love at first sight, and that's ok. If you experience more intense feelings, however, you may actually be suffering from depression. Don't battle it alone. Seek help and support, and in time, things will be better.

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