A Lutheran baptism for infants is part of a long-held religious tradition that predates Lutheran Christianity itself. In many ways, the typical baptism in a Lutheran church will not differ much from one of other protestant denominations that practice paedobaptism (infant baptism). There will, however, be some defining elements that remain characteristically Lutheran during the ceremony.
About a Lutheran Baptism
Each year, many infants are subjected to a Lutheran baptism. Lutherans reside under the umbrella of paedobaptist denominations that consider infant baptism to be an essential rite into the Christian faith. Parents who have their children baptized as Lutherans typically do this because they themselves are devout Lutherans or Lutheranism is the traditional church of their ancestors.
The current age marks a great change in the attitude of many persons towards religious baptism ceremonies. These days, some parents will have their child baptized simply because it has been a tradition in their family lines. However, the practice of infant baptism has been tirelessly carried out by the Lutheran denomination and other Christian groups because it is considered to be a necessary step towards the deliverance of a child's soul. In the past, baptism has been practiced as a sacrament for redeeming the infant's soul from hell.
If you are merely attending a baptism as a guest then you will note that the event is carried out with great reverence. Hence, there is a certain amount of protocol involved in this Lutheran ritual; protocol which is common to most baptism ceremonies.
The key characteristic of a Lutheran baptism is that the ritual is carried out by a Lutheran pastor within a Lutheran church. An infant undergoing a baptism in the Lutheran faith will not be immersed into a pool of water. Rather, the sprinkling method has been considered sufficient by the Lutheran laity.
The details of setting up such an event may differ throughout Lutheran churches, despite the fact that they are all ensconced within the same denomination. Some Lutheran pastors may require that you be an attending member of the church before your infant can be sanctified through baptism. However, if you are not a regular attendee of Lutheran services, but still desire your child to receive a baptism, some Lutheran pastors may be willing to accommodate such needs. If the latter situation represents your case, you will need to call a number of Lutheran churches in your area and meet with pastors to discuss the requirements.
Be prepared that many if not most of these churches will require that at least one of the parents has been baptized as an infant into the Lutheran faith. Although some churches may be more liberal regarding their baptism policies, the vast majority will examine their parishioners' beliefs to rule out mere whimsy.
The baptism etiquette during a Lutheran christening is similar to most Orthodox and Protestant baptisms. Formal church dress is desirable for all attendees. The mood is quiet and reverent; after all, this event marks an important step in an infant's life. Many would argue that it marks the most important step of his or her life. It is always best to show up a few minutes before the time stated on your invitation.
Naturally, you will not be attending such an event if you have not received an invitation by mail, or at least a very convincing plea from the parents of the infant. Since baptisms are events generally reserved for close family and friends, it is very inappropriate to bring unannounced guests or show up unannounced yourself. Gift giving is not mandatory, but it is always an elegant and thoughtful gesture to bring the infant something worthy of this memorable occasion. Following a Lutheran baptism, there will typically be a reception held by the parents or a relative of the christened infant. Guests should attend unless they have a prior understanding with the hosts.
Since baptisms have long been considered sacred events, it is actually a great honor if you have received an invitation to a Lutheran baptism as it means that you have been invited to witness what is considered a profession of faith and a salvific covenant. This is very meaningful to the family involved, and it shows that you are thought to be a close and valuable friend who is an important figure in their child's life.